Originally posted by Pillbusta:
Originally posted by SundayTicket:
Hurt is the same as ugly. She is ugly to me, that's fact, at least in my eyes. He's a millionaire that's fact, he cheated on her that's fact, what did I say that wasn't true? I'm just being real. And I know plenty of women tthat stay in shape and eat healthy after multiple kids. The majority of women get comfortable and lazy with there man and there body as do men which leads to both sides cheating on eachother or becoming unhappy aka divorce rate. Vernons a millionaire and girls want the dude so as I said she's a fool to think this is the only girl hes cheated on her with
Well, that's your opinion I guess. Monogamy ain't for everyone I guess. To me a commitment is a commitment. I got married 12 years ago and my wife gave me 3 kids and a stable household. My plan all along was for her to give the best years of her life to me, change her last name to my own and to sacrifice her life and body to bear 3 children for me that we could raise and nurture together and then retire in our older years enjoying the fruit of our labor. We are currently on pace towards that goal. It ain't for everyone but I made a calculated decision once I got married and I was willing to make some sacrifices towards what I felt was the better path forward for my life. I determined that life's ultimate purpose is life sustenance and procreation. A man and a woman together has to do that and once the offspring is here it often takes both parents for proper development. The marriage is often the glue that holds a family together. Just as my wife gave me her best I am aiming to give her my best based upon the promise I gave her and her father who is now deceased. Just as we brought forth children I now have greater purpose in life to give them my best. Once my life has concluded, I want to be able to say I did what I was created to do. I feel that my purpose is to first sustain myself and thereafter to procreate and care for my present and future. To me that means caring for my wife and kids above all.
Your taking it all wayyyyy to serious lol. I got the same beliefs as you, However, If this is the FIRST girl shes found out that hes cheated on her with, im still saying shes stupid to think this is the first (or last) lol. Theres a good chance that once you are a cheater on a person, always a cheater. Some dont hold the same beleif but once youve crossed that line once, the temptation and easyness to do it again is much easier the 2nd time around and so forth.
Again, I aint disagreeing with you? You acting like im sitting here saying Its OK to cheat on ppl or that you shouldnt be committed. I have a son of my own with my awesome girlfriend. That doesnt change the fact of how i feel about Vernon's situation. I feel like your just preaching life lessons to preach dude lol.... (good lessons though)