Originally posted by kelson49er:
I think part of the reason that stuff has gone so sideways for so long for non-white Americans is because, every time there's a potential inflection point moment like we're having now, it's always "keep that over there in the place it belongs," or "let's tone it down and be civil," or "stop shoving it in my face, I just want some peace and quiet." Perhaps the greatest of all these hits is, of course, "stick to sports."
If there's one thing I hope people start doing, it's saying something. Tell that crazy racist uncle that what he said isn't okay. Tell your coworker that the joke wasn't funny. Tell your kids that an entire demographic group in this country has life-or-death stakes when they're caught up in a traffic stop. So, in that vein, if a columnist or podcast host or whoever feels compelled to say something meaningful and heartfelt, they should, whether it's connected to the Niners or not. This "time and place" bullcrap is just a tired old refrain for the status quo.
Since the first big Civil Rights movement in the 50s and 60s, and really since slavery, there has been no national conversation and reconciliation on race. That time may finally be upon us, and shame on us if we're going to still insist on compartmentalization and blissful ignorance.
Amen. Don't be afraid to discuss racial issues with someone of a different race. Be honest and open and you'll be amazed at what you can learn. When I was about 60 I had a young black man about 18 or 19 ask me point blank what I thought about black people. I was floored that a kid this young would ask a guy my age a question like that. We stood there on my porch for about 30 minutes talking about how I viewed black people and he told me how he viewed white people. I was honest with him and I assume he was honest with me or he wouldn't have even asked the initial question. In the end I hope he got something out of it because I sure did.
My point of sharing this is marching and protesting are fine but Kareem said the other day that we've seen this before many times going back to the 60's and nothing has changed. We need more than signs and speeches. We need honest dialogue between people and change at the highest levels. We can never change everyone's attitude but we can't keep sweeping this stuff under the rug.
[ Edited by CatchMaster80 on Jun 4, 2020 at 1:48 PM ]