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Originally posted by Pillbusta:
Originally posted by 5_Golden_Rings:
Unfortunately that's not necessarily up to the coaches and/or GM.

Oh so Goodell metes out punishment right prior to the NFCCG based on an allegation in an instance like this?

They really trashed Ray McDonald and cost him a ton of money and all the while he had the sextape that exonerated him after all was said and done with his name wrongfully in lights

Things aren't he same since then. Ray Rice. All that crap. On and on. The league is a lot more concerned with being super PC now. I don't know what the CBA permits with respect to the commissioner's exempt list. I'm pretty sure Goodell has the power to keep him from playing by putting him on that list.
Originally posted by RDB4216:
Originally posted by 5_Golden_Rings:
Originally posted by 9ersLiferInChicago:
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Good thing you aren't either, because the "evidence" you provided don't prove he did anything to her. She called the police and alleged that he pushed her down. The police found no visible evidence to support her claim, and I'm told she denied medical attention. So, he was arrested solely on her word alone. Now, are you're claiming that her allegation alone suffices as evidence?

There is still clear and obvious—nay, nigh UNDENIABLE— evidence (assuming they're actually together) that he's clearly in a toxic, dysfunctional relationship. That he's in a little boy relationship instead of a grown ass man relationship. Sick of little boys sneaking their way onto this team.

This was not the time for this s**t. Dude is dead to me.

You have really gone way past the line of "rational". Not everyone was raised in a Convent. What was that like? I am guessing that's where you learned to be so overly judgemental.

So Fred Warner, George Kittle, Christian McCaffrey, Arik Armstead, Jimmie Ward, Trent Williams, Kyle Juszczyk, Robbie Gould, Dre Greenlaw, etc, all raised in a Convent?

Hell, even JAVON KINLAW keeps his personal life under control. His biggest controversy was calling out Grant Cohn.
Originally posted by 49erFaithful6:
Originally posted by RDB4216:
Originally posted by 5_Golden_Rings:
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There is still clear and obvious—nay, nigh UNDENIABLE— evidence (assuming they're actually together) that he's clearly in a toxic, dysfunctional relationship. That he's in a little boy relationship instead of a grown ass man relationship. Sick of little boys sneaking their way onto this team.

This was not the time for this s**t. Dude is dead to me.

You have really gone way past the line of "rational". Not everyone was raised in a Convent. What was that like? I am guessing that's where you learned to be so overly judgemental.

Plus as I have already explained to him just say man. Grown is redundant as if he is a man, we know he is grown. No reason for the other word either.

No, it's a turn of phrase which adds an additional emphasis.
Originally posted by Ninerlakerdodger:
Please, women lie all the time.

play him. To bench him for the NFCCG is flat out wrong.

Unfortunately, he likely will be benched (hope not though). They are gonna cover themselves. We live in a "believe all women" culture where companies all over the nation are shamed into a when-in-doubt-terminate/suspend policy based solely on an allegation. Hence men get arrested without real evidence. And when the man is ultimately cleared or the allegations are proven to be untrue nothing is done to restore the man's status. He's just SOL, and certainly nothing will ever happen to the woman who falsely accused.

But, this is a terrible risk you take for being a professional athlete who chooses to be in a toxic relationship. Once you reach certain levels of success you have to distance yourself from toxic people, even if it's your family. I have achieved a certain level of success and I had to do that to even family members. These professional athletes have to understand that the rachet girlfriends they had growing up and in college can't be taken with you when you get drafted, even if you have kids by them. Get a lawyer, pay child support, get a visitation order, and move on. But by no means do you bring that mess with you in your success. They're distractions, and leeches who will try to ruin you in one fit of an emotional tirade. See below:



Yes, women DO lie, and lie all the time.
[ Edited by 9ersLiferInChicago on Jan 25, 2023 at 10:21 AM ]
no news is good news, i think if he was going to get me-too-ed the uproar would have started already
Originally posted by riverrunzthruit:
no news is good news, i think if he was going to get me-too-ed the uproar would have started already

If there had been any video of OmeniWHO hurting the woman making the allegations, even the simple act of grabbing her arm, I think the uproar would have started already. But there is no video. There are no visible injuries. There is just a distraught lady who claims her arm is hurt because OmeniWHO grabbed it. At this point it becomes a he said/she said type of case. No uproar, YET.

If it happens again, OmeniWHO is gone. His NFL career is over. The 49ers won't touch him. No other team in the league will touch him. This, unfortunately, presents him with a tough set of circumstances. Should the two "kiss and make up," there's a chance this could happen again. The smartest move OmeniWHO could make is to move out, get as far away from this girl as he can, and move on with his life. This sounds like a simple solution. Unfortunately, affairs of the heart rarely are.

I love OmeniWHO. I love his name. I love what he brings to the 49ers. But, in all honesty, this man is a fringe player. He is very good. But he can also be replaced. The 49ers built a scary defensive line by focusing on players with key skills. OmeniWHO checked all those boxes. So did/does Ebukam. So did/does Drake. They are not star caliber players like Nick Bosa. Nick cannot be easily replaced. OmeniWHO can be replaced.
Originally posted by NYniner85:

Essentially the details aren't horrible so this will just go away.
Originally posted by 5_Golden_Rings:
Originally posted by Pillbusta:
Originally posted by 5_Golden_Rings:
Unfortunately that's not necessarily up to the coaches and/or GM.

Oh so Goodell metes out punishment right prior to the NFCCG based on an allegation in an instance like this?

They really trashed Ray McDonald and cost him a ton of money and all the while he had the sextape that exonerated him after all was said and done with his name wrongfully in lights

Things aren't he same since then. Ray Rice. All that crap. On and on. The league is a lot more concerned with being super PC now. I don't know what the CBA permits with respect to the commissioner's exempt list. I'm pretty sure Goodell has the power to keep him from playing by putting him on that list.

He does, but that's not happening this week, and the only way he doesn't play is if the team decides that. Especially with as little evidence as there appears to be here, he should 100% play Sunday. Now if more comes out after this game and we are fortunate enough to play in the SB, it's possible we could see him out of that game being 2 weeks away and nobody wanting that to be any distraction during media week.
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Originally posted by NinerBuff:
Originally posted by NYniner85:

Essentially the details aren't horrible so this will just go away.

garbage ass attempt by a pissed off girlfriend to try an derail/hurt this dudes career an in turn the SF 49ers SB run.
Originally posted by NinerBuff:
Originally posted by NYniner85:

Essentially the details aren't horrible so this will just go away.

I do hope you are right. And if this is true then Charles Omenihu has dodged a major bullet, and he needs to get rid of that women forthwith. Get as far away from that woman ASAP, while you can. And I hope to god he has not impregnated her. Otherwise, the clock is ticking on a premature end to his career.
Originally posted by 9ersLiferInChicago:
Originally posted by NinerBuff:
Originally posted by NYniner85:

Essentially the details aren't horrible so this will just go away.

I do hope you are right. And if this is true then Charles Omenihu has dodged a major bullet, and he needs to get rid of that women forthwith. Get as far away from that woman ASAP, while you can. And I hope to god he has not impregnated her. Otherwise, the clock is ticking on a premature end to his career.

Originally posted by BobSacamano69:
Originally posted by NinerBuff:
Originally posted by NYniner85:

Essentially the details aren't horrible so this will just go away.

garbage ass attempt by a pissed off girlfriend to try an derail/hurt this dudes career an in turn the SF 49ers SB run.

'Tis why people need to be careful who they associate with in this day and age.

It's terrible when the instance is legitimately real, but also bad when it's false and reputations are ruined or livelihoods negatively affected.
Glad to hear it….. Poor kid has put in a lot of work and effort to get where he is. Nice to see a Player getting a fair shake.
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